I was watching an old episode of "Bewitched", the TV Show where Darren (aka Dirwood)  is continually trying to come up with ideas for advertising campaigns for his clients.  Samantha, his wife who is a modern day witch actually steals the show but even she lives by Kabbalistic Principles when she says to her interfering mother with regards to their relationship "I inspire, and he finds.  And that is the way it should be".